U are judged and u will always be judged. It is not a bad thing. It is not negative. Even you always judge yourself. you feel elated if you bring the results and get bit disappointed if you fail to bring results. there is nothing like 'partial result'. Either you got the result or not. That's it. If you say, there is a thing like 'partial result', you are just not clear of the results.
You not only judge yourself but you judge others also. it is constant and continuous process. you might not be judging who is the best. you may call it understanding in common sense. you may call it finding whether a physician good or not. you wont go to a physician with out knowing whether he is good or not. you may choose his service in emergency. in that situations, the only reason being it to be an emergency. u dont have an option.
if you are saying that your friend is a good person, you judged him against its complimentary - 'not being so good'. we, most of the times, do not try to judge a person whether good or bad but whether a person good or not so charmingly good (in other words - average).
In your life, if you want to be 'not a bad person', you will become that. if you want to be a 'not the worst performer', you will become that. Do not misunderstand that you will become good person by wanting to be 'not a bad person' and a good performer by wanting to become 'not a worst performer'. you can become either a good or a best performer only by saying it so.
After all, what you tell yourself is just the first step in becoming what you tell yourself. what you really become depends on what you do (which gets greatly influenced by what you tell yourself). it is the action that decided what you will be. what you are now is a result of what you did so far. if you are a well talking person with low results, that's what you did so far- at least in the last few yrs.
You not only judge yourself but you judge others also. it is constant and continuous process. you might not be judging who is the best. you may call it understanding in common sense. you may call it finding whether a physician good or not. you wont go to a physician with out knowing whether he is good or not. you may choose his service in emergency. in that situations, the only reason being it to be an emergency. u dont have an option.
if you are saying that your friend is a good person, you judged him against its complimentary - 'not being so good'. we, most of the times, do not try to judge a person whether good or bad but whether a person good or not so charmingly good (in other words - average).
In your life, if you want to be 'not a bad person', you will become that. if you want to be a 'not the worst performer', you will become that. Do not misunderstand that you will become good person by wanting to be 'not a bad person' and a good performer by wanting to become 'not a worst performer'. you can become either a good or a best performer only by saying it so.
After all, what you tell yourself is just the first step in becoming what you tell yourself. what you really become depends on what you do (which gets greatly influenced by what you tell yourself). it is the action that decided what you will be. what you are now is a result of what you did so far. if you are a well talking person with low results, that's what you did so far- at least in the last few yrs.
