It isn't a sufficiently strong purpose to make you form the habit of doing the things you don't like to do for the very simple reasons that it is easier to adjust ourselves to the hardships of a poor living than it is to adjust ourselves to the hardships of making a better one. If you doubt me, just think of all the things you are willing to go without in order to avoid doing the things you don't like to do.

He insulted me.

He insulted me. Yes. I am not mistaken. He did insult me. He did it. He said " your choices are wrong". He said it around 3-4 times at different times. I remember. He said "3-4 books chadivi book raseddamanukunte aipodu. Anta dammunte choopinchu" "prativokkadu topu ani anukuntadu" " neelo kooda facebook zuckenberg and Microsoft billgates anta skill unte choopinchu" neeku anta vundi anukuntunnava? Anta ledu.. vunte ikkade choopinchu. Cheta kake vellipotunnav kada.

Hard work is unavoidable both for manual labour and thoughtful research but only the above parallel work is awarded. 

Both less skilled and supra par works are hard works. Both only the later gets praise, award and reward.

If we have the conviction that we can relax, we will convince ourselves to relax more than required. The brain plays the trick. It's similar to the concept of 'threshold of pain' which is always subjective, which can constantly be improved and which most of the times, if left unchecked, gives sub-par results in long run.

Should we ignore everyone?

In our pursuit, should we ignore everyone? Should we denounce everyone? The answer is both 'yes' and 'no'. It depends on both the time and the need of the hour.

It is 'no' for most of the times. However a 'no' does not mean that we have to be with all the people for a long durations of time (the option 'all the time' is not even considered). We just have to be there only til the time needed. Nothing more nothing less.  But we should keep in mind that our job comes first because it is our responsibility not some one else's.  We agreed, we promised to do our job, so we should do. If our job gives even a little amount of relief, we should have the courtesy to call the people and wish them. No one is too busy for that.

The answer is 'yes' because our work comes first.  We have to say no to others in a nice way.  We have to say no to ourselves also to get the work done with in time frame to get the intended results.

What we do when we don't feel like doing decides what we are.  In life, we get what we are but not what we wish or cherish for. What we are is the action part and What we want is the planning part.  Planning is not acting. Too much planning is detrimental to action.

Moods swing but the time does not.  We can not wait for the right mood to start working especially when it's our work.  So profound is the time that it neither waits, nor changes for any one or for anything in this universe.